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I Sense You Are Feeling Troubled
Monday, October 25, 2010
Today's class on Counseling was super fun. One of my main interest, but looolz, lecture was super heavy, 106 slides of pure text omg =.=Was suay enough to kena the first one to do roleplay for counseling practical, mostly made a fool of myself in there, but was really fun actually, just that feels weird to have a whole class outside watching you. Doesn't seem that hard actually. Too bad we cant get to the helping process yet =( I feel so impatient CBT (cognitive-behavior-therapy) also seems pretty cool after watching the video. Kinda like something I use, so maybe it's my style of psychotherapy =D but sheesh, the Corey dude do until dam pro sia. I wanna like rewatch his vid to analyse how he asks his questions. Empathy wise also need to learn how to relate and to paraphrase to ensure being on the same page with the client. Something I tend to skip =l Gotta learn and improve on it man. Hopefully can learn more and help lotsa people aroun =) Anyway, been reading a book about love, love as in the love for the people around us, the care and concern kinda stuff. The choice between selfishness and selflessness.Anyway, if love was giving even during inconvenient times, I think I haven't been really loving my friends much. I hardly ever the one who initiates the conversation in msn, mostly attributed to my personality, yet shouldn't be an excuse for not doing so. Especially to those whom put in extra effort to try maintain or build a relationship with me. Sorry ya all ._. I'll try learn and be better. Reminds me of the times where I was mostly the initiator and whenever that person initiated a convo, I would be quite surprised. But having been through it, I haven't realize that I'm the one now who's being difficult. And sheesh =.= realize I cant make it for tmr's camp lunch cos class starts from 1. Like wuuuut?! Ohwells. Realized I probably will have to miss Alumni classes for Hiclub this semester. Hais, another round of sacrifice and surrendering? Am so bogged by my current struggles I think I can barely be bothered by it. But well, hopefully I can find some way round it, or I'll just have to learn to deal with it when it comes, in a few weeks more. God, you owe me a thumbs-up =(Labels: frenz, God, hi club, School, thoughts
Darren Nico Pillai
Not-so-average teen, deep thinker, perfectionist with quirky randomness. Trained in the art of sarcasm and nonsensical logic.
Overcoming the circumstances of the present, and the issues of my past,
striving in self-betterment with a moral balance with the hope of the fulfillment of the destiny to be a light for Christ in His likeness,
spreading the love of God as how He first loved us
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Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart for what breaks Yours
Everything I am, for Your kingdom's cause
As I walk from earth into eternity
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- Hosanna -
Philosophy:
I like to think about life, especially pursuing on the concept of love. Not that lovey dovey romantic kind, but the affections we have for one another
that ties us together,strangers, friends, besties, family, that's the love I wanna know about. Love is the essence of life that ties us together,
love is what we were made for and to be, love is embracing the gift of the relationship with GOD.
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Collection of inspirations and reminders: Nico_thoughts@Twitter
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I Sense You Are Feeling Troubled
Monday, October 25, 2010
Today's class on Counseling was super fun. One of my main interest, but looolz, lecture was super heavy, 106 slides of pure text omg =.=Was suay enough to kena the first one to do roleplay for counseling practical, mostly made a fool of myself in there, but was really fun actually, just that feels weird to have a whole class outside watching you. Doesn't seem that hard actually. Too bad we cant get to the helping process yet =( I feel so impatient CBT (cognitive-behavior-therapy) also seems pretty cool after watching the video. Kinda like something I use, so maybe it's my style of psychotherapy =D but sheesh, the Corey dude do until dam pro sia. I wanna like rewatch his vid to analyse how he asks his questions. Empathy wise also need to learn how to relate and to paraphrase to ensure being on the same page with the client. Something I tend to skip =l Gotta learn and improve on it man. Hopefully can learn more and help lotsa people aroun =) Anyway, been reading a book about love, love as in the love for the people around us, the care and concern kinda stuff. The choice between selfishness and selflessness.Anyway, if love was giving even during inconvenient times, I think I haven't been really loving my friends much. I hardly ever the one who initiates the conversation in msn, mostly attributed to my personality, yet shouldn't be an excuse for not doing so. Especially to those whom put in extra effort to try maintain or build a relationship with me. Sorry ya all ._. I'll try learn and be better. Reminds me of the times where I was mostly the initiator and whenever that person initiated a convo, I would be quite surprised. But having been through it, I haven't realize that I'm the one now who's being difficult. And sheesh =.= realize I cant make it for tmr's camp lunch cos class starts from 1. Like wuuuut?! Ohwells. Realized I probably will have to miss Alumni classes for Hiclub this semester. Hais, another round of sacrifice and surrendering? Am so bogged by my current struggles I think I can barely be bothered by it. But well, hopefully I can find some way round it, or I'll just have to learn to deal with it when it comes, in a few weeks more. God, you owe me a thumbs-up =(Labels: frenz, God, hi club, School, thoughts
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