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Misintepretation
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Heh, everyone that reads my blog thinks I'm in some sort of relationship with a girl.
First off, I want to say that, not everything that happens between a guy and a girl indicates romance. I'll jus say that between genuine love and romance, there has been much misintepretation by many ppl.
Not that I've reached the state of genuine love, but I've set my heart for it. I dun deny thr's a bit of romance essence in it, but it's all about regulating it. And if there's room for arguing, I'll end off with saying that I'm guided by my own motive checks.
Subjective, but I go by a certain strict principle of selfish/selflessness. Romance is not necessarily bad. Its natural. Just that ppl at times take it and over do it. Get all high in love with each other. and when the passion's out, poof~ But in genuine love there's a aspect of doing what's best uh. And sometimes that means keeping away from each other to avoid temptations into selfish indulgence.
Yea, genuine love also means that although thr's romantic feelings involved, it's about regulating and keeping check of each other to stay on track. As for me, undeniably there's romantic feelings, but that's not the priority. The function of genuine love as to override the passion of romance. even if it means having to go against what I feel like.
But hey ho, as for all that intimacy expressed in my blog, once again, I will say why are such reservations made only for romance. Love was meant to be freely given to everyone, family, friends, acquaintance and even enemies. We only hold back because of our own selfishness, or fears and worries.
Hey people. Stop thinking on what the world defines relationship as, but take a look at the bigger picture, even if you dun agree with me. There has to be something more to a relationship than just mutual attraction and feelings.Labels: love, thoughts
Darren Nico Pillai
Not-so-average teen, deep thinker, perfectionist with quirky randomness. Trained in the art of sarcasm and nonsensical logic.
Overcoming the circumstances of the present, and the issues of my past,
striving in self-betterment with a moral balance with the hope of the fulfillment of the destiny to be a light for Christ in His likeness,
spreading the love of God as how He first loved us
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Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart for what breaks Yours
Everything I am, for Your kingdom's cause
As I walk from earth into eternity
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- Hosanna -
Philosophy:
I like to think about life, especially pursuing on the concept of love. Not that lovey dovey romantic kind, but the affections we have for one another
that ties us together,strangers, friends, besties, family, that's the love I wanna know about. Love is the essence of life that ties us together,
love is what we were made for and to be, love is embracing the gift of the relationship with GOD.
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Collection of inspirations and reminders: Nico_thoughts@Twitter
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Misintepretation
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Heh, everyone that reads my blog thinks I'm in some sort of relationship with a girl.
First off, I want to say that, not everything that happens between a guy and a girl indicates romance. I'll jus say that between genuine love and romance, there has been much misintepretation by many ppl.
Not that I've reached the state of genuine love, but I've set my heart for it. I dun deny thr's a bit of romance essence in it, but it's all about regulating it. And if there's room for arguing, I'll end off with saying that I'm guided by my own motive checks.
Subjective, but I go by a certain strict principle of selfish/selflessness. Romance is not necessarily bad. Its natural. Just that ppl at times take it and over do it. Get all high in love with each other. and when the passion's out, poof~ But in genuine love there's a aspect of doing what's best uh. And sometimes that means keeping away from each other to avoid temptations into selfish indulgence.
Yea, genuine love also means that although thr's romantic feelings involved, it's about regulating and keeping check of each other to stay on track. As for me, undeniably there's romantic feelings, but that's not the priority. The function of genuine love as to override the passion of romance. even if it means having to go against what I feel like.
But hey ho, as for all that intimacy expressed in my blog, once again, I will say why are such reservations made only for romance. Love was meant to be freely given to everyone, family, friends, acquaintance and even enemies. We only hold back because of our own selfishness, or fears and worries.
Hey people. Stop thinking on what the world defines relationship as, but take a look at the bigger picture, even if you dun agree with me. There has to be something more to a relationship than just mutual attraction and feelings.Labels: love, thoughts
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