I detest people who think they can get what they want by throwing tantrums. Yea, you'd get your way sometimes but people only give in to you because you're immatured. You waste other people's time playing hard to get and being difficult. If that's the success you want in life, go ahead and be some lowly leech that lives off the goodwill of your family, friends who care for you, and kind people that bother to give part of themselves to entertain your selfish nonsense.

Grow up. If you want something, ask. If you dont get what you ask, move on. Life isn't a bed of roses for everyone. You can keep asking if you want, but there's absolutely no need for you to dwell in self-pity and hurt the people who care for you by engaging in spiteful behaviours.

And I mean this to everyone. Dont snub people off when they're making an effort just simply because you're unhappy. Dont drop your responsibility just because people don't agree with you. I know it feels nice to be valued, and to have people go out for you specially, and hence people employ the "Sometimes you need to run just to see who will come after you" trick to test the waters. A little self-assurance is necessary every now and then, but to overuse this method like the way a baby cries for food is annoyingly narcissistic.

Firstly you use up resources of the ones who sacrificially come after you to assure you, and sometimes people don't have enough to get to you. It's not that they dont want to, you just caught them in a difficult position where by you hide in your self-absorbed world gleefully fantasize the anticipation of how nice it would if someone came, whereas he or she has to make a difficult choice between, having to worry about either you, or whichever other circumstance they forgo for you. And it's really dumb when you make assumptions that no one cares for you in an unfortunate coincidence that your test completely backfires and you realize no one's there. There can be many possibilities for these. One, refer back to my previous point. Two, people care and many do, just that they don't recognize your cries or simply do not know what to do. And three, it turns out no one cares. Ok dam the feeling sucks alright, but tell you what, the irony of it is that you're not alone, in terms of facing this. there's many people out there struggling with that same loneliness. People handle it differently, some hide it, some pretend not to know it, some deal with it in positive sublimination. But just like you, there are people finding that companionship, some sooner than the others. It's ok to feel sad, but its not okay to tear yourself down in self-pity. So yea, don't play games in which you comfortably soak in the attention of people coming out for you just because it feels good, people have their limits to, and they're not even obligated to go lengths for you. They do, because they care enough so stop abusing it.

There are better ways to help yourself feel happy . Appreciate the little things you have and stop envying. The world is with enough hurts, no one needs any of these little hurts and trouble stemming from selfish gratifications. It's snowballing into a ridiculous chain of needless hurts that you're a recipient of, but you don't have to feed it. Do your part, stop the hurts, one day, it'll come back to you.

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I detest people who think they can get what they want by throwing tantrums. Yea, you'd get your way sometimes but people only give in to you because you're immatured. You waste other people's time playing hard to get and being difficult. If that's the success you want in life, go ahead and be some lowly leech that lives off the goodwill of your family, friends who care for you, and kind people that bother to give part of themselves to entertain your selfish nonsense.

Grow up. If you want something, ask. If you dont get what you ask, move on. Life isn't a bed of roses for everyone. You can keep asking if you want, but there's absolutely no need for you to dwell in self-pity and hurt the people who care for you by engaging in spiteful behaviours.

And I mean this to everyone. Dont snub people off when they're making an effort just simply because you're unhappy. Dont drop your responsibility just because people don't agree with you. I know it feels nice to be valued, and to have people go out for you specially, and hence people employ the "Sometimes you need to run just to see who will come after you" trick to test the waters. A little self-assurance is necessary every now and then, but to overuse this method like the way a baby cries for food is annoyingly narcissistic.

Firstly you use up resources of the ones who sacrificially come after you to assure you, and sometimes people don't have enough to get to you. It's not that they dont want to, you just caught them in a difficult position where by you hide in your self-absorbed world gleefully fantasize the anticipation of how nice it would if someone came, whereas he or she has to make a difficult choice between, having to worry about either you, or whichever other circumstance they forgo for you. And it's really dumb when you make assumptions that no one cares for you in an unfortunate coincidence that your test completely backfires and you realize no one's there. There can be many possibilities for these. One, refer back to my previous point. Two, people care and many do, just that they don't recognize your cries or simply do not know what to do. And three, it turns out no one cares. Ok dam the feeling sucks alright, but tell you what, the irony of it is that you're not alone, in terms of facing this. there's many people out there struggling with that same loneliness. People handle it differently, some hide it, some pretend not to know it, some deal with it in positive sublimination. But just like you, there are people finding that companionship, some sooner than the others. It's ok to feel sad, but its not okay to tear yourself down in self-pity. So yea, don't play games in which you comfortably soak in the attention of people coming out for you just because it feels good, people have their limits to, and they're not even obligated to go lengths for you. They do, because they care enough so stop abusing it.

There are better ways to help yourself feel happy . Appreciate the little things you have and stop envying. The world is with enough hurts, no one needs any of these little hurts and trouble stemming from selfish gratifications. It's snowballing into a ridiculous chain of needless hurts that you're a recipient of, but you don't have to feed it. Do your part, stop the hurts, one day, it'll come back to you.

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