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Passive Aggression
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Sometimes, we'd cut ourselves off from others, be it in seclusion, or depression, thinking we'd do good to them, by not troubling them with our issues, by being strong and coping by ourselves. We claim to protect the ones we care for, yet by doing so, people often fail to realize that it is this very act that hurts the people they very well intended to "protect". True, it may somewhat shades the ignorant around, but the greatest damage done is to those who care for you.Your friends, your family, the people you never thought meant anything who are watching silently from the shadows are the victims of your passive aggression you thought was helping them. It's as simple as the feeling when a friend teases you and not tell you something, which you might really want to know. That buggy feeling, multiplied by the times you see/sense a friend in need, and yet, closes their doors upon you and all you can do is nothing but sit around and watch, knowing your friend's struggling on their own. It's easy to do it to others. It isn't easy when it's being done to you.Will update more soon. I'm shag from instructor's retreatLabels: thoughts
Darren Nico Pillai
Not-so-average teen, deep thinker, perfectionist with quirky randomness. Trained in the art of sarcasm and nonsensical logic.
Overcoming the circumstances of the present, and the issues of my past,
striving in self-betterment with a moral balance with the hope of the fulfillment of the destiny to be a light for Christ in His likeness,
spreading the love of God as how He first loved us
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Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart for what breaks Yours
Everything I am, for Your kingdom's cause
As I walk from earth into eternity
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- Hosanna -
Philosophy:
I like to think about life, especially pursuing on the concept of love. Not that lovey dovey romantic kind, but the affections we have for one another
that ties us together,strangers, friends, besties, family, that's the love I wanna know about. Love is the essence of life that ties us together,
love is what we were made for and to be, love is embracing the gift of the relationship with GOD.
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Collection of inspirations and reminders: Nico_thoughts@Twitter
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Passive Aggression
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Sometimes, we'd cut ourselves off from others, be it in seclusion, or depression, thinking we'd do good to them, by not troubling them with our issues, by being strong and coping by ourselves. We claim to protect the ones we care for, yet by doing so, people often fail to realize that it is this very act that hurts the people they very well intended to "protect". True, it may somewhat shades the ignorant around, but the greatest damage done is to those who care for you.Your friends, your family, the people you never thought meant anything who are watching silently from the shadows are the victims of your passive aggression you thought was helping them. It's as simple as the feeling when a friend teases you and not tell you something, which you might really want to know. That buggy feeling, multiplied by the times you see/sense a friend in need, and yet, closes their doors upon you and all you can do is nothing but sit around and watch, knowing your friend's struggling on their own. It's easy to do it to others. It isn't easy when it's being done to you.Will update more soon. I'm shag from instructor's retreatLabels: thoughts
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